TEENAGE RELATIONSHIPS- IN VIEW

TEENAGE RELATIONSHIPS -.. Teenager is the most important asset of any country & mostly they encounter so many unhealthy relationship. Gladly as it may sound, infatuation has rubbed so many of the teenagers/ youth their proper place in pursuit of a glorious destiny,  you will hear stuffs like "love at first sight".. Hmm... I laugh in Spanish... their minds have been programmed wen seeing a tall, curved hips,pink lips nd round face... lust become their dreams, have you forgotten 'as a man thinketh in his heart so is he'.. meaning you've made a person maturity physique your dream because your heart is where critical decision of your life is determined... exchanging lustful desires for a magnificent future.  Before the modern era, a boy who is to marry a girl would sneak at night & throw stones at the female window just to see her and it  would be  hidden and brief meanwhile it is d opposite in this dispensation.. It is so evident and transparent that even the blind can see, even teenagers who have no clue of marriage engage in and stories like heart broken, unwanted pregnancy, she is pocket oriented keeps arising. At this point of his life he loses his self will, lack focus, his thinking is as bad as him, seeing 'Mrs God sent' anytime he wants to read and the heart pricks on anything that moves with skirt .. Learning from people mistake at times helps a long way there are two  stages in a man age life I learnt which gave my life huge direction and when you miss it.. It might be dangerous to correct; the first 25 years of a man life should focus on 'Me' meaning he should develop himself,  learn how to set a home,  buy and read books and tapes of different concerns of life( relationship and marriage inclusive), set a goal for d future and plan adequately,  the second 25' should be focused on We'.. your understanding with your spouse, helping each other in achieving purpose,  working as a team to jump hurdles. many people will say let me enjoy my youthful strength..then you will probably miss the stage of developing your  self and you'll live to remember the scar. Show me a person who is lustful and I will show you a person who will end disastrously. My dear, truth to be told. Love is kind, not jealous, humble " not lustfulness... ..teenage relationships destroys your personality, your dignity, your God ordained purpose nd eventually your future..